It’s my mom’s birthday today! Happy birthday beautiful mom!! As I spent the last several days writing out memories and thoughts that I have regarding my mom, I was taken back to special times, I was reminded of how amazing this woman is. As I wrote out these words for her on simple note-cards I smiled a lot and even laughed. I shared stories with the kids as I remember special moments in my life. How in so many ways, I am who I am because of her and her example. I’m very blessed to have been given such a terrific mom. It was easy for me to focus on the negative things growing up and really, honestly there were not very many but I had a way of keeping those negative things stored in my heart and as I spent the time to write about all the positive things, all the good memories, all my mom’s really good character traits, I realized the good far out weighed the bad, and I mean abundantly so. Holding on to bad memories is not good for growth. They must be released so we can move forward. How is it we can be told 10 amazing things about us but we like to focus on that one bad thing that’s been said? It’s time to focus on the good and release the bad.
One of the most thoughtful gifts I have received was a basket of good thoughts and wishes from a far-away friend I had the pleasure of forming a friendship and bond over a period of one year, just 365 days of sharing moments and thoughts and in that time she was able to get to know me on a level where she could fill a basket of thoughts and wishes that were specific to me. It gave me such an amazing feeling, that I plan to give this gift as much as I can to special people in my life. Just write out things about them that I find special, shared memories and things they have taught me. This is what I did for my mom, she will get a box of memories, wishes, scripture and things that I admire in her as a person. This way she could reach into the box each day and pull out a memory or thought specifically about her, about us or simply reach and get a special scripture, one she just may specifically need on that specific day, it sort of works out that way…you know?
This is shortly after her gallbladder surgery when she was supposed to be taking it easy. I was supposed to be helping her hop the fence, instead I took a picture and giggled first. She is the kind of mom who also thought it was funny. I helped her of course…after I took this picture.
Each year for Mothers Day my mom treats us to a house tour. The kind where we go to beautifully decorated homes, this is the sort of fun we have. See grandma there pushing us out-of-the-way to take center stage. You see where my light heart comes from?